I don’t mean to sound clichéd, but as far as I can recollect I think the events and memories of 2013 would remain etched in my mind for a long time. Be it brewing my own cup of coffee for a few months or waking up purely with the help of an alarm, an activity which I wouldn’t have even attempted earlier. Since mom was away trying to welcome a new member in the family, I single-handedly tried and managed to run a household. Since I was home alone for a considerable time, that was the time when a few definitions were redefined.
I enjoyed being Home-Alone for that brief period of time. I had something to keep myself occupied and since I knew it was only for some time, I enjoyed while it lasted. My mom was so proud when she heard I was managing everything in a “responsible” way. Oh my, the things one has to do to get a few words of appreciation from the Mother. But priceless indeed 🙂
Speaking of which, there was another memorable event during which both my parents said they were extremely proud of me. Yours truly was invited to be a speaker at a TEDx event in Coimbatore. I was invited as a blogger from Chennai. You can read about it here, here and watch the video here (Do let me know how it was). I was shocked and surprised (in that order) for finding my name and video associated with the elite TEDx club. For some of you, it may not be a big deal. But for a not-so established blogger like me, it was so encouraging and motivating. I worked on a script about my blogging journey and with God’s grace delivered the speech exactly the way I’d played it on my mind. This TEDx Speaker tag is something that I would cherish and hold it close to my heart for the years to come!
Also, thanks to Indiblogger an article of mine, along with my picture, was published in the Chennai edition of Deccan Chronicle. You can read it here. Another article which I had sent to NxG Hindu was edited and published too. You can read it here.
Coming to the not-so interesting professional aspect, I took a giant leap from one end of IT, from being a developer, to another end of the corporate structure. I took up the role of a Technical Writer within the same organization. It was refreshing, promising and finally I can proudly say that I’m doing something that I enjoy. I completed two years with the organization (another sweet reminder of how time is flying past so quickly, and it seems just yesterday I wrote about my first day at work here).
I made new friends, found new interests and I’m able to see a remarkable change in the way I deal with myself and with the people around me. I’ve got my priorities right and I’m kind of happy where I am.
As someone who is against comparison, I wouldn’t ask for 2014 to be as good as 2013. I’m giving all the freedom to 2014 to chart out its course as it wishes to. But 2013 was indeed one wonderful year among the so many others years I’ve been around.
Thank you 2013! Here’s to 2013, for being an awesome year. 🙂
Welcome, 2014. Here’s to 2014, for new beginnings, new hopes, new wishes and new dreams. 🙂
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January 14, 2014 at 7:08 pm
Happy 2014. Wish 2014 is more enjoyable than 2013. Glad you learned how to manage a household. Will come in handy in the future.
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January 14, 2014 at 7:28 pm
Just finished watching the video. You speak very well. I am impressed. I would just give one suggestion for improvement. All the time your eye contact with the audience is at your right side only. A few times you looked at the audience in the center. You completely did not look at your audience on your left side. Professional speakers will have eye contact with all the audience in all sides.
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January 14, 2014 at 7:33 pm
I hope this year is even better than the last!
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January 15, 2014 at 2:17 am
Happy 2014 Ashwini. Looks like 2013 was good for you in terms of writing (articles getting published). Hope you get to achieve much much more this year 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 2:21 am
I watched the video. Your speech was really good. I agree with SG about not looking at your audience on the left side.
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January 15, 2014 at 4:16 am
I have been home-alone for a considerable time, when I was outside Chennai. It's a must-have experience – it teaches us on what all we're taking for granted! I just wish I learned to cook more dishes – I cooked very few basic dishes only. But there is always time 🙂
Destination Infinity
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January 15, 2014 at 7:54 am
A good read of reminiscence. I'll come back after seeing your links.
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January 15, 2014 at 11:27 am
A great new year post! Congo for everything, Ashwini 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 4:06 pm
I could relate to this post on so many levels 🙂 I learnt all these things some years ago when I moved out of the house after my 12th and started living on my own…Now when I hear some friends bragging about how well the cake they baked turned out, I smile as I remember those days 😛 Cooking is so much more than just those occasional treats we prepare 😀
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January 15, 2014 at 6:14 pm
I could relate to this too…. I am person who gets cooking expect for the baking …. but when Mom once had to leave to kerala for almost a month… yup.. I learned cooking and running the household single handedly. :D… do I I sound proud? 😛
And Tedex…. Wow… big congrats for that 🙂
P.S. Thanks for visiting my space even when I don't come here regularly. But pakka promise…. very soon gonna read all ur past posts. 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:16 pm
2013 has been great for you. Here's wishing you a spectacular 2014 too! 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:21 pm
Most definitely 😉 Thank you.
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January 15, 2014 at 6:22 pm
Thank you so much. Eye contact was a common feedback that I got from many people, Guess I'll ensure I take care of it, if at all I get a change again. Thanks for taking time to watch the video and for your feedback 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:23 pm
Hopefully. Or why compare? 😉
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January 15, 2014 at 6:23 pm
Touchwood. Thank you so much Mahesh 😉
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January 15, 2014 at 6:25 pm
Thanks Mahesh. I'll definitely work on that. Thanks for the feedback 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:25 pm
Exactly. I realized how I had taken so many things for granted. Though I was prepared 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:26 pm
Thank you 🙂 Please do let me know how it was.
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January 15, 2014 at 6:28 pm
Thank you 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:29 pm
Tell me about it. About following the recipes or adding a personal touch, it's really a nice activity 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:30 pm
Thank you so much Shilpa 🙂
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January 15, 2014 at 6:32 pm
Of course, when we do things which earlier only our moms had been doing, we definitely feel proud of ourselves 🙂
Thank you and Welcome to my blog 😉
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January 15, 2014 at 7:56 pm
This is Avada Kedavra here, not Mahesh 🙂 This is the link to my old blog.
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January 15, 2014 at 8:37 pm
wow! That certainly sounds awesome!! You deserve all of it!
Ha! I was a technical writer too (in the biotech sphere) before I became a patent agent! 🙂
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January 16, 2014 at 4:17 am
Wishing you add more feathers to your cap Ashwini in 2014 and beyond:)
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January 16, 2014 at 8:32 am
Nicely summed up – hope 2014 brings professional and personal joy! Can your loyal readers expect a full-length book from you? 🙂 🙂 🙂
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January 16, 2014 at 8:55 am
A good memorable 2013 for you!
Wishing you a happier and more eventful 2014!
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January 16, 2014 at 9:21 am
I wish 2014 comes out even better than this…Loved this post especially the part about house keeping:)
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January 16, 2014 at 3:16 pm
That is one great year for your Ashwini. I just saw your TEDx video, and you did a wonderful job there! Keep up the good work that you did in media publishing too. As far as cooking and cleaning goes, it's just in a women's genes. When you get an opportunity to do them, you would definitely do them far well, and that's what you did by managing all by yourself. Your mom must be really proud about this, and must be relieved with the fact that you are now trained and now ready to go to another house for living 🙂 (you know what I mean!).
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January 16, 2014 at 5:43 pm
I hope 2014 is even better than your wildest dreams! Good luck in all things. ♥ It is a major achievement to handle the cooking and cleaning and staying alone for the first time! Three cheers for you! YAY!
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January 17, 2014 at 3:14 am
So many leaps Ashwini you are going great guns,keep it up.
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January 17, 2014 at 4:24 am
Amazing! Your writing has got some magic…keep writing and keep chasing your dreams…They will come true for sure 🙂
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January 17, 2014 at 6:47 am
I did see your TEDx video!!!!
and man you truly are a lovely daughter!! Indeed a great year!
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January 17, 2014 at 1:41 pm
It was nice to know you learnt to manage a home all by yourself, and maybe that has made you understand your mom better, and maybe you will not get irritated when she shouts at you sometimes.
Yes things are never perfect, what tastes good one day tastes quite horrible the very next day, it happens to even experienced cooks. Tea and coffee are no exceptions.
You had a great year, now you can look forward to a wonderful year ahead filled with the right opportunities in your life.
All the best for the year 2014
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January 17, 2014 at 1:49 pm
Congrats. That has indeed been an amazing year. Wish you even greater laurels this year.
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January 18, 2014 at 8:49 am
Oops Sorry.
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January 18, 2014 at 8:50 am
Wow. You were a technical writer too? That's awesome. Would like to speak with you sometime 🙂
And, Thank you 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 8:53 am
Thank you Sir 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 1:13 pm
Wish you an even better year ahead Ashwini. With your optimistic spirit, I am sure you will achieve greater laurels.
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January 18, 2014 at 6:03 pm
A full length fiction is really not my type Mahesh. Thanks anyway 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:04 pm
Thank you 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:05 pm
Thank you 🙂 Housekeeping seems the be the icing on the cake 😉
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January 18, 2014 at 6:08 pm
Thank you so much Anu 🙂
Yes, mom was very proud of me, specially when I'd made paneer from scratch. And yes, now I've got one less thing to worry about 😉
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January 18, 2014 at 6:09 pm
I realized how well I'd pulled myself through those times. Thank you 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:19 pm
Thank you 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:20 pm
Woah. Thanks for the compliment 😉 I like the word 'Magic' 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:20 pm
Aww..Thank you so much 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:22 pm
In a way yes Rama. I understood why sometimes it appears as though mom loses her temper for no reason. I cant imagine the same chores, again and again and again. And even after doing the best if our work is not appreciated, I can understand how irritating it must be to keep doing the same thing yet again.
Thank you 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:22 pm
Thank you 🙂
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January 18, 2014 at 6:23 pm
Thanks for dropping by Alka. Thank you 🙂 Touchwood!
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